Is it simply depression? Or miscellaneous deeper? i have numerous things I want to do, and I simply can"t lug myself to carry out them. Even things I have to do, an easy things favor put away the clean to wash - the seems prefer such a hill to climb and I just don"t have the energy. So ns kinda carry out the absolute minimum ns can obtain away v - and wait to do things I have to do until I can"t placed them off any more.

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It"s referred to as procrastination. Ns am not sure what the healing is. Ns am curious come see other people"s advice ~ above the topic as I perform the same.
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Not simply procrastination. For me, it"s crippling anxiety that makes everything shut down. Ns go number and also functioning grinds come a halt.
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Avoidance, i m sorry is a symptom of atmosphere disorders, choose depression. General avoidance and lethargy isn"t an especially a symptom that PTSD, but due to the fact that depression deserve to be comorbid through PTSD rather often, over there you go.
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I think it"s generally depression yet when your stress and anxiety cup is complete just one little thing can feel prefer the most complicated task friend have ever before done. This happens to me also on poor days.
I have the very same issues and it is much much more than procrastination...like a psychological paralysis of sorts. I think it"s a product of serious depression.

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Avoidance can likewise simply it is in unconsciously or consciously avoiding our triggers, and the an ext we prevent triggers, the much more triggers we seem to uncover to avoid.I think the a large big chunk the mine (I"m exceptionally avoidant) originates from when i was between about five and seven years old. I just might not occupational out what i was gaining constantly physically punished for, or dragged turn off to the headmaster because that (my father had warned me that if he ever heard the the college headmaster had actually beaten me, he would provide me an even worse beating once I obtained home...).The assumed would all of sudden creep into my mind that what i was liven doing, particularly if it to be fun, would an outcome in correctly consequences, so it to be far better to simply not do things.I discovered other associations too, seeing only one magpie native the school bus was a certain omen that that week i"d be dragged come the headmaster"s office and also left to sweat outside it, the same for eating custard. It was only years later that i learned the principle of the post hoc fallacy (post hoc ergo propter hoc - after this therefore as such - the cockrel crowing go not reason the sun to rise, nevertheless of what the cockrel would claim).It"s taken me fine over 40 years to realize the it probably had far more to carry out with the young college teacher"s own problems than it had actually to perform with any type of actions by me - yet I"d to be told that college teachers (and policemen) were very clever human being who were always right - by my mom who happened to it is in a school teacher.Add onto that, safety 7 years in a boarding school, wherein the possibilities of actually acquiring started on points I want to perform - was zero.Avoidance and learned helplessness, they"re bastards.